Once upon a time a man could woo a woman through mutual attraction and protective instincts. While yes knights did joust to impress the ladies at court, the point is that was their profession already. Nowadays, this has all changed with PinInterest demanding “40 Guidelines to Make A Woman Happy,” and enough hoops to jump through to make any man want to thank God that marriage does not exist in heaven (Matthew 22:30). I call this complex, The Mocking Complex, in that Mockingbird males have to learn 26 songs to potentially woo a female who is fickle and might go for another male’s song. This is the state of things in the dating game, as men must now prove themselves of being worthy of being loved by 26 or more potential criteria like “making her feel heard,” “if she is Avoidant personality, make sure she feels independent,” “praise her,” “listen to her and don’t try to fix it,” and etc and etc. I am not saying these are wrongful, but it doesn’t stop at ten, it is an endless l...