"Who Will Love Me for Me?"

There is a transition in the Christian walk that few can tolerate. A changing of the relationship with Christ that requires a mature believer to understand it. Many approach Jesus Christ in faith through the elementary path, they come to Him for eternal life, which He does promise (John 3:16, John 3:18). However, the author of Hebrews gives us a glimpse into a change in our hearts from seeking the Savior for soley salvation and instead just to seek Him. He says, " Concerning this we have much to say which is hard to explain, since you have become dull in your [spiritual] hearing and sluggish [even slothful in achieving spiritual insight]. For even though by this time you ought to be teaching others, you actually need someone to teach you over again the very first principles of God’s Word. You have come to need milk, not solid food. For everyone who continues to feed on milk is obviously inexperienced and unskilled in the doctrine of righteousness (of conformity to the divine will in purpose, thought, and action), for he is a mere infant [not able to talk yet]!
But solid food is for full-grown men, for those whose senses and mental faculties are trained by practice to discriminate and distinguish between what is morally good and noble and what is evil and contrary either to divine or human law." (Hebrews 5:11-14, AMPC). The author of Hebrews is pointing us to a maturity that is beyond the milk, and what he calls the elementary things, "Therefore let us go on and get past the elementary stage in the teachings and doctrine of Christ (the Messiah), advancing steadily toward the completeness and perfection that belong to spiritual maturity. Let us not again be laying the foundation of repentance and abandonment of dead works (dead formalism) and of the faith [by which you turned] to God, With teachings about purifying, the laying on of hands, the resurrection from the dead, and eternal judgment and punishment. [These are all matters of which you should have been fully aware long, long ago.]

If indeed God permits, we will [now] proceed [to advanced teaching]." (Hebrews 6:1-3). The apostle is trying to bring to our attention that we should be moving onto advancement, not remaining stuck on "are we saved? Can we fall away?" In fact, in this context, we reinterpret the terrifying next few verses, "Therefore let us go on and get past the elementary stage in the teachings and doctrine of Christ (the Messiah), advancing steadily toward the completeness and perfection that belong to spiritual maturity. Let us not again be laying the foundation of repentance and abandonment of dead works (dead formalism) and of the faith [by which you turned] to God, With teachings about purifying, the laying on of hands, the resurrection from the dead, and eternal judgment and punishment. [These are all matters of which you should have been fully aware long, long ago.] If indeed God permits, we will [now] proceed [to advanced teaching]. For it is impossible [to restore and bring again to repentance] those who have been once for all enlightened, who have consciously tasted the heavenly gift and have become sharers of the Holy Spirit, And have felt how good the Word of God is and the mighty powers of the age and world to come, If they then deviate from the faith and turn away from their allegiance—[it is impossible] to bring them back to repentance, for (because, while, as long as) they nail upon the cross the Son of God afresh [as far as they are concerned] and are holding [Him] up to contempt and shame and public disgrace." (Hebrews 6:1-6). It is popular to understand the Apostle Paul's words as a reprimand and warning for apostasy and falling away from the faith, but it actually is method of speech where Paul makes the notion of falling away from the faith impossible, when you read Hebrews 9 and 10, it becomes clear that no one can fall away who truly has been saved through Christ. The Apostle Paul, like in His letter to the Romans sets rhetorical questions up, and even tells unbelievers to despair before sharing divine plan of salvation thru Christ Jesus. It is method of writing and argument, as will be explained in following words from got Questions?.org, "Answer: Hebrews 6:4-6 states, “For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted the heavenly gift, and have become partakers of the Holy Spirit, and have tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come, if they fall away, to renew them again to repentance, since they crucify again for themselves the Son of God, and put Him to an open shame.” This is one of the Bible’s most difficult passages to interpret, but one thing is clear—it does not teach that we can lose our salvation. There are two valid ways of looking at these verses:

One interpretation holds that this passage is written not about Christians but about unbelievers who are convinced of the basic truths of the gospel but who have not placed their faith in Jesus Christ as Savior. They are intellectually persuaded but spiritually uncommitted.

According to this interpretation, the phrase “once enlightened” (verse 4) refers to some level of instruction in biblical truth. However, understanding the words of scripture is not the same as being regenerated by the Holy Spirit. For example, John 1:9 describes Jesus, the “true Light,” giving light “to every man”; but this cannot mean the light of salvation, because not every man is saved. Through God’s sovereign power, every man has enough light to be held responsible. This light either leads to the complete acceptance of Jesus Christ or produces condemnation in those who reject such light. The people described in Hebrews 6:4-6 are of the latter group—unbelievers who have been exposed to God’s redemptive truth and perhaps have made a profession of faith, but have not exercised genuine saving faith.

This interpretation also sees the phrase “tasted the heavenly gift” (Hebrews 6:9) as referring to a momentary experience, akin to Jesus’ “tasting” death (Hebrews 2:9). This brief experience with the heavenly gift is not seen as equivalent to salvation; rather, it is likened to the second and third soils in Jesus’ parable (Matthew 13:3-23), which describes people who receive the truth of the gospel but are not truly saved.

Finally, this interpretation sees the “falling away” (Hebrews 6:6) as a reference to those who have tasted the truth but, not having come all the way to faith, fall away from even the revelation they have been given. The tasting of truth is not enough to keep them from falling away from it. They must come all the way to Christ in complete repentance and faith; otherwise, they in effect re-crucify Christ and treat Him contemptuously. Those who sin against Christ in such a way have no hope of restoration or forgiveness because they reject Him with full knowledge and conscious experience. They have concluded that Jesus should have been crucified, and they stand with His enemies. It is impossible to renew such to repentance.

The other interpretation holds that this passage is written about Christians, and that the phrases “partakers of the Holy Ghost,” “enlightened,” and “tasted of the heavenly gift” are all descriptions of true believers.

According to this interpretation, the key word in the passage is if (verse 6). The writer of Hebrews is setting up a hypothetical statement: “IF a Christian were to fall away . . .” The point being made is that it would be impossible (IF a Christian falls away) to renew salvation. That’s because Christ died once for sin (Hebrews 9:28), and if His sacrifice is insufficient, then there’s no hope at all.

The passage, therefore, presents an argument based on a false premise (that a true Christian can fall away) and follows it to its senseless conclusion (that Jesus would have to be sacrificed again and again). The absurdity of the conclusion points up the impossibility of the original assumption. This reasoning is called reductio ad absurdum, in which a premise is disproved by showing that it logically leads to an absurdity.

Both of these interpretations support the security of the believer in Christ. The first interpretation presents unbelievers rejecting Christ and thereby losing their chance of salvation; the second interpretation presents the very idea of believers losing salvation as impossible. Many scriptures make it abundantly clear that salvation is eternal (John 10:27-29; Romans 8:35, 38-39; Philippians 1:6; 1 Peter 1:4-5), and Hebrews 6:4-6 confirms that doctrine." (got Questions?.org, http://www.gotquestions.org/Hebrews-6.html)

Jesus Christ said, "And this is the will of God, that I should not lose even one of all those he has given me, but that I should raise them up at the last day," (John 6:39), "However, those the Father has given me will come to me, and I will never reject them/All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away/All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one who comes to Me I will never turn away/All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, and the one coming to Me, I shall not cast out," (John 6:37. NLT, NIV, BB, BLB), "If a man has a hundred sheep and one of them wanders away, what will he do? Won't he leave the ninety-nine others on the hills and go out to search for the one that is lost? And if he finds it, truly I tell you, he is happier about that one sheep than about the ninety-nine that did not wander off.  In the same way your Father in heaven is not willing that any of these little ones should perish," (Matthew 18:12-14). The Apostle Paul expounds on this, "And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit," (Ephesians 1:13), "set his seal of ownership on us, and put his Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come," (2 Corinthians 1:22), and "Now if we are children, then we are heirs--heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory." (Romans 8:17). Paul is trying to get his readers to progress beyond the elementary truths to next important lesson of being disciple: loving God for being God. Many love Jesus because He saves them from damnation, that He paid the price on cross, and this is good because salvation cannot be removed from the Savior, nor can Christ be split or compartmentalized. But what if maturing as believer is to love God because He exists, because He's God? What if we went one step beyond [false] prosperity gospel of if you love and follow Jesus who will give you possessions and storehouses of heaven (Malachi 3:10), what if we went beyond loving him for saving us from our sins? (John 3:16). I am not saying to forget He saved us, nor remove it from His personality, He is Savior, but what if we love Jesus For Him, not just because He saved us? This is hard to understand I know, and I am not making case to forget what He did for us on the cross, instead I am saying with that memorium we move to maturity as Paul says in the verses I have shared, and love God with are whole heart, soul, and body (Matthew 23:27-31); which means to love Him more than for what He has done for us or will do for us! To love God for who he is, to become His bride and be in love with God not just because palaces in heaven, eternal life, and more; but For Him!

J.J. Heller wrote a powerful song that goes like this, "Who will love me for me? Not for what I have done or who I will become? Who will love me for me?" Is Jesus singing this song to us? Again, I am not urging anyone to forget the Gospel or salvic message, but rather in sharing the Gospel and moving to maturity, is it possible for us to love God beyond what He has done, and love Him because He is? Do not we want the same in return? Unconditional love where we do not have to prove ourselves, or merit it? We must always remembering death and salvation Christ has given us, but can we also learn to Love God as we want to be loved? To go one step beyond loving because we get something, and loving because we love.